lying non stop since I was old enough to talk

Specifically I have lied about my age for years. I dropped my wallet at work and it was picked up by an older co worker who promptlybegan to tell the workd how old I was. I left that job and that age issue followed. I have had many jobs and the age issue follows me-even when questioned about my age and I am truthfull the rumor persists. It is so bad now that a former employer, who I had professional and personal difference with put the infi on the internet, on my credit info, and out in my heighborhood so tahat all-alleged friends and total strangers all-call me ma'm-even if i introduce myself.